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  • NaBloPoMo – Day 26

    Day 26

    If you’re celebrating Thanksgiving today (or even if you’re not!), tell us about the best cook in your family.

    I might be the best cook in my family.  Through folks passing away, my increasing my skills, and my aunt (my mother’s sister) not cooking any these days, I might be.  The same way some team will win the NFC East this season and get to the playoffs, it might be me.

    Best thing I make is mac and cheese, which is ironic because I’m lactose intolerant.  I can hardly stand to eat the best thing I cook.  I take Lactaid, but it’s not always effective, so I make the mac and watch it be eaten.

    The key to a great mac and cheese is the bechamel. I will not say how I make mine or what I put in it, but when your bechamel is on point, you’re in there.

    I’m hoping to one day equal my aunt’s mac and cheese, which is still the best I’ve ever had.  At Thanksgiving, Christmas, any time she made mac and cheese, that was always the main event.  Those holidays were the best.  My mom made turkey or chicken most years.  Some of those earlier years, auntie would make ham steak, which when I ate pork, was a treat.  My aunt would make the mac and cheese, my aunt the mashed potatoes and/or potato salad.

    I couldn’t believe it when my aunt told me her mac and cheese secret ingredient.  I’m still tweaking mine to be as good.  My aunt has also shared the potato salad recipe with me, but I haven’t attempted it.  She and my mother made it the exact same way and it was so good, I’ve only had potato salad as good as theirs only once before.  I don’t want to disappoint myself.

    My older cousins and my great aunt had their recipe, which was, I’d say about 90% exactly like my mom and aunt’s recipe, but not exactly there.  Unfortunately, one or two times when they made theirs, I did tell them it wasn’t as good as my mother’s and aunt’s, which led to hurt feelings.  I apologize.

    One of my younger cousins puts it down in the kitchen, she says.  I’ve already challenged her to a cook off.  We’ll see if she accepts.  If she accepts, we’ll get some impartial judges to try it and see and if she wins, she can be considered the best.

    I’ll demand a rematch though.

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 25

    Day 25

    Do you think it’s better to be a recognized expert for one thing, or known to be really good at lots of things?

    In the regular business world, it’s probably better to be known as an expert with a specific niche: you’re the motivation person, the management person, the software design person, whatever.  You get yourself recognized, people pay you for your expertise, you deliver it, everybody’s happy.  That becomes who you are.  At least until or unless you decide to make that u-turn and go do something else.  Then you start building your next identity.

    In the arts, you can get known as an expert at one thing or good at several things.  If you’re going to go the latter route, people say you should first get known for, I guess, your main thing.  Playwriting, painting, collage, acting, singing, whatever.  And then if you have interest, passion, purpose, or talent, or whatever, branch off to the next thing.

    The difference between the arts world and the business world is there is usually more leeway for you to jump and play around in the arts world.  In the business world, they’ll pidgeonhole you.  In the arts world, the bottom line is to share the work and make yourself known because you can be known as more than one thing.

     

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 24

    Day 24

    Who is an expert you admire and why?

    When you’re into writing, literature, theatre, and acting, there are so many to choose from, if you’re really studying your craft.

    Just from people still living, I admire Dinty W. Moore, essayist.  He’s written my favorite books on creative nonfiction.  His way of explaining the genre has resonated with me the most.

     

    On the poetry front, E. Ethelbert Miller and Afaa Michael Weaver are my favorites.  I like Ethelbert’s work because of its accessibility.  It’s not the overly complicated, dense sort of poetry championed more in some circles.  It seems like he’s trying to communicate something and not hide it.  His poem “Nasrin” is my favorite poem, ever.

    I might be biased towards Afaa Weaver because he’s from wherE I’m from, but I also love how he blends the sensibilities he grew up with in Baltimore with the wisdom and experience he’s gained in China and from immersing himself in Chinese culture.

    For drama, I think Lynn Nottage is the best around right now, specifically because of “Ruined.”  I don’t normally read anything cover to cover in a sitting, but when I read “Ruined,” I couldn’t stop.  Everything about it was amazing: characters, setting, theme, everything.  It has to be one of the top plays last decade and since 2000.

    Actors* (I’ll just list a few favorites):

    Viola Davis and Meryl Streep: They’re my 1a and 1b.  Actually, they could fill the first several spots by themselves.  They’re achieving transcendence.  They’re that good.  Go watch “Doubt.”  Immediately.

    Chiwetel Ejiofor: Go watch “Tsunami: The Aftermath.”  He and Sophie Okonedo won Golden Globes for this.  They will break your heart in this.  When she grabs the child to pass off as the one she lost and he tries to stop her, that is one of the best scenes I’ve ever witnessed in anything.  The pathos is so deep.

    Al Pacino: Yeah, “The Godfather” and “Scarface.”  But really, for “Angels in America” and “Dog Day Afternoon.”

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 23

    Day 23

    What do you do better than anyone else?

    Procrastination comes to mind.  I dozed off and did several other things while sitting in front of my laptop the other day, while trying to figure out what to write.  You’ll be reading this after I post it, but I watched some of the football game while writing this.

    I watched more of the game before posting this.  I won’t procrastinate as much tomorrow.  No game on.

     

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 22

    Day 22

    3-7.

    Forsett done for the season.

    Flacco done for the season.

    Steve Smith.

    Sizzle.

    This is completely new territory for Ravens fans.  2-7 was bad and surely something we’ve never experienced before.  But for the Ravens to now have a losing record and have lost the starting running back and quarterback in the same game, along with the #1 receiver and its best defender already, this is far and beyond anything we’ve ever seen in the history of the Ravens.

    Every Ravens fan could be forgiven if, up until today if they, like I was, just watching the season, enjoying it for what it was, and not worrying about it because next year would be different, but now feel anxiety about next year.  Joe will have an MRI tomorrow, but it isn’t even a given that he’ll be back for the start of 2016.

    Since the Ravens won their first Super Bowl, next year has almost always been a given for Ravens fans.  2002 was a wash, but they went 10-6 in 2003.  6-10 in 2005, 13-3 in 2006 (even if we lost at home to Manning in the playoffs).  5-11 in 2007, 11-5 in 2008.  But with now more uncertainty in the offense, who really knows what the team will even look like?  Will Joe come back in time to start the season?  If not, who’s the QB?  Will Forsett be back?  Will Breshad Perriman finally see the field?  If Joe’s back, will they even get to practice together before the season starts?

    Next year is all we have now, though, and already, Ravens fans are talking draft — will we take a QB with our first pick now?  What position will we ultimately pick in?

    Whether one has lost all hope for now or next year is all up to how good they think Ozzie and the front office as well as Joe’s doctors are.  Whether you think Steve Smith and Sizzle are coming back.  And if so, if you think they’ll still be good.  No matter what, this is all new and something I hope we don’t ever have to see again.

     

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 21

    Day 21

    My presentation didn’t suck.  Or at least my coworkers didn’t tell me it did.  They thanked me when I was done.

    I was concerned during the week about the content.  My boss and the head of the department whose team I was giving the training to had talked about what should be covered.  We came up with a good list of things, of which I filled in the details, but in the end, the presentation went in a different direction as the team themselves had a lot to say themselves about the system and the processes used to interact with it.

    I encouraged everyone to write down notes for ideas for improvement and send them to me.  I don’t know the degree to which their input is welcome in their department, but I want them to know that the IT department welcomes their comments and suggestions.  And critique.

    Presenting and training have officially become the best part of my job.  This isn’t any surprise.

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    Speaking of critique, I’m a week out from the writing workshop and need a writing workshop fix.  I may be addicted.  One of my resolutions for next year will be to do at least one workshop each month or to enroll in a few online classes or something.

     

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 20

    Day 20

    What do you hope happens by the end of this year?

    I want to have in place a writing practice that works for me.  Writing every day has, even if I’m doing it so late that I don’t feel like posting it on time and ending up posting things I’ve written, way after the fact.  The next step is to figure out a time to write each day, since I’ve pretty much decided I am.

    I want to finish another draft of my newest play, beginning on December 1.  I want to write 2 1/2 pages of script every day between then and December 31.  I think it’s doable.

    I kinda hope I get an iPad Pro by the end of the year.

     

  • Five Things – 19 November 2015

    Five Things – 19 November 2015

    Twenty years ago today, the Baltimore Stallions (“Baltimore Colts,” “Baltimore CFL Colts,” “Baltimore CFL’ers,” so on, and so on …) won the 83rd Grey Cup, defeating the Calgary Stampeders.

    One could call this the climax of a two-year flirtation with Canadian football.

    Even though the Stallions filled a vacuum left after the demise of the Baltimore Colts, the announcement nearly two weeks before that Art Modell and his Cleveland Browns would be moving east, meant Sunday afternoons in Baltimore would be spent with the NFL again.

    It meant that the CFL’s American experiment, at least in Baltimore, would be over.  Stallions owner Jim Speros would not even try to operate in what was again an NFL city.  It meant he would not field a 1996 Stallions team.  His franchise would be transferred to Montreal, returning the CFL to that city, to become the continuation of the Montreal Alouettes.

    It meant another Baltimore team disappearing overnight.

    In the midst of a terrible on-field season, the Ravens still celebrate their 20th anniversary this season.  Future Ravens Hall of Famer Ed Reed will be inducted into the Ravens Ring of Honor this Sunday ahead of the game vs. the St. Louis Rams (no irony there).  Ed’s accomplishments for the Ravens have gained him immortal status in Baltimore and one day in Canton, alongside names like Unitas and Mackey and Marchetti.

    But if you’re old enough … and you were there … you remember Tracy Ham running and throwing the way some NFL quarterbacks are praised for now.  And Mike Pringle kicking up Lenny Moore’s dust.  And you remember walking up into the stands at Memorial Stadium and staring at that strange 55 yard line.  Feeling a sense of cognitive dissonance when a team would punt on 2nd down.

    And seeing the Baltimore Colts legends there on the sidelines and feeling like this was it, this was your team.  Your parents and perhaps your grandparents had the Baltimore Colts.  CFL or not, the Stallions were yours.

    These days, the Montreal Alouettes don’t officially consider the Stallions years as part of their history.  There was never going to be a commemoration at M&T Bank Stadium on Sunday.  The history and accomplishments of the Baltimore Stallions are often drowned out by conversations of the NFL expansion and the controversy surrounding Art Modell’s move to Baltimore.  The last time I even saw any interest was when O.J. Brigance was in the news for his heroics in his battle with ALS, as he won championships with both the Stallions and Ravens during his playing days.

    I’ve said before that the 1983 Baltimore Orioles championship is often overshadowed by the end of the Baltimore Colts nearly 6 months later.  In comparison, the 1995 Baltimore Stallions Grey Cup title is nearly lost, due to the emergence of the team that would eventually be named the Baltimore Ravens.

    Unless you were there and unless you remember.

    And if you do, you know it was more than a flirtation.  It was fun.  It was wacky and strange, just like Baltimore.  And if you were in, you were in fully because you just knew Paul Tagliabue was shutting Baltimore out of the NFL forever.  It wasn’t what our parents grew up with and I’m sure people outside of the area laughed a lot at our expense.  But the team embraced Baltimore.  It embraced our wacky fans and our NFL history and even helped us needle our old friends out in Indiana and in the NFL offices a little.  And the Stallions won us a title.

    Yet, it never sated the appetite to get back in the NFL, never got to be what it could have been, had we not awoken to the news that November morning that the NFL was coming back to town.

    We never got a championship parade.

    Rolling Stone | Wild Stallions: How a Team From Baltimore Rocked Canadian Football

    The Snap | The Baltimore Stallions Celebrate Grey Cup Win, 20 Years later

    Baltimore Sun | After 20 years, Stallions finally celebrate Grey Cup win

    2.

    Ed Reed will indeed be inducted into the Ravens Ring of Honor on Sunday.

    Ray called himself the Ravens’ General.  But if he was the General, Ed Reed was the Admiral, our other Joint Chief.  Ray’s shadow was very wide, and Ed always shunned the spotlight as much as possible so he never got the recognition for his own leadership.  If you doubt it, read this ESPN article from 2013.  Ed did what Ben Zander talked about in his book The Art of Possibility, he led from his own seat.

    Regardless of how much attention he never got, his stats aren’t in doubt, though.  He’s an all-time great.  His Canton introduction is another one I want to go to when the time comes.

    When the Ravens won Super Bowl 47, I was happy that Ray had ended his career with another championship and gone out on top.  But with everything Ed had physically sacrificed for his teammates, all the preparation to go out there and do what he could (making himself so respected that even greats like Manning and Brady would just not throw in his direction) even when he was almost constantly injured, I was so much happier that he’d gotten there just that once.  I really wondered after the 2012 AFC Championship game if that was as close as he’d get to a title.

    3.

    These college kids are getting it done.  #OccupyTowson #OccupyMizzou #OccupyPrinceton

    4.

    I can’t lie.  All this NaNo stuff is kicking my ass.  But it’s worth it.

    5.

    The kick heard ’round the world.  Given her lackluster performances in her first two UFC fights, I didn’t think Holly stood a chance pretty much.  I figured Ronda would go in there and on aggression alone, regardless of how good Holly’s striking was, end this fight the way she’d ended most of her other UFC fights — a clinch, a hip toss, an armbar, a tapout.

    Wow, was I wrong.  Holly dominated her thoroughly.  She kept the fight standing, where she had the advantage, and where Ronda ended up having no shot.  The fight got away from Ronda pretty quickly and she never recovered.  I think Ronda didn’t expect Holly to back down and fight with the poise and confidence she showed.  Holly showed no fear.  Holly didn’t rush her.  Holly fought her own fight and in the end, put on a great win.

    I was hoping for a Cyborg/Ronda fight, but if there’s going to be an immediate rematch, I’m happy for that, too.  Maybe we’ll also get the rumored Miesha Tate/Cyborg fight.

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 19

    Day 19

    Where would you want to retire if money wasn’t an issue?

    I still wouldn’t.  I’d just write and act until the very end.

     

  • NaBloPoMo – Day 18

    Day 18

    What do you hope people remember about you after you’re gone?

    That I wrote some great things.  That I made some great theatre.  Of course, this means I need to write some great things and make some great theatre.  I’m working on that.